An easier love.
I have had my share of trying so hard to make a relationship work, it totally wore me out. Reading books, watching the guy’s every move to make sure he “felt OK”, walking on eggs all the time. And I had my share of successes, believe me. If you can call them that. They were relationships in which I felt out of place, – because I WAS OUT OF PLACE.
I was not in my rightful vibrational space, but in a space where I was attempting to align myself with something that was in no way aligned with me!
And of course those relationships never lasted, and of course, at that time, it was necessary for me to blame someone, and it was never me.
Coming into contact with the Law of Attraction has cleared up the mystery of it all for me, once and for all. Of course one sometimes still wants someone who one is not aligned with at all, because, after all, have we not been taught to negate our emotions, wants, needs and desires? Have we not been taught (and probably taught our kids) to hide certain feelings because they were uncomfortable for others to witness? Hence having to be taught, again, to reach that point where we CAN distinguish between something we really want, want a bit less, and something we do not want at all, long before that something turns into a relationship that brings us no happiness at all.
Selfishness (with its negative connotations) comes into play here as well. Being called selfish by someone usually means “You have something I want / you are not giving me something I feel rightfully entitled to”… when true, spiritual Selfishness means making sure I manifest things that make ME feel good, because if I do not feel good (as I am the one creating this reality of mine) no one else will, and what I will attract will be more of the same – not good.
So, seen in the context of relationships, making sure that I am happy means that my partner will also be – all within a true understanding that we cannot blame one another for our own manifestations….
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